Daniella transformed by Cape Town

what I've taken from cape town...

 Cape Town has transformed me definitely for the best. I've come back to the U.S. smarter and more aware of issues in Africa, the U.S. and with myself. Being in Cape Town and seeing the way others lived made me very appreciative of the things that I was so blessed with. Usually I would complain about materialistic things, but seeing the South Africans not complain about their circumstances make me ashamed. I've learned to be more grateful for the things that I do have and it makes me want to work hard for the things that I want to accomplish in the future. City Mission Educational Services played a big part in my transformation. School was just something that had to be done, I always did the minimum. I never pushed myself to do more and actually work to my potential. I'm not saying that I have completely changed and now I will be getting straight A's all the time, but I am working towards pushing myself to doing my best. I am honestly happy that I was given this opportunity to have a free education and such good teachers willing to teach me. I think that is very important in having a successful future. So I do not plan on taking my education for granted anymore. I also have become more aware of social issues around my community and country. I recently participated in a Trayvon Martin rally because I feel it is necessary for me to show my support for a cause that I feel strongly about, and Africa has taught me that. I hope I can get more involved in other charities and foundations that fall in line with my values. When I was in Africa I didn't realize the impact that it had on me until I came home and started applying it to my everyday life, so for that I am thankful.

Daniella's game drive expectations exceeded

game reserve time...

this is the day that I have been anticipating the entire trip. While applying for the study abroad program I read that we would be going to a safari and I was sold on the trip. I've always wanted to experience this once in a lifetime opportunity and I was so thankful that I was able to. I think it's safe to say that everyone has always dreamed about going to an African safari to just witness the animals in their natural habitat. The semester long Cape Town Study Abroad students are able to go to  Kruger National Park but that is a two hour plane ride from Cape Town so we didn't have enough time, so in order to see animals we went to Aquila Game Reserve, which is only an hour and a half from Cape Town. Words cannot describe how incredibly beautiful this venue was. They had little hut like cottages with outdoor showers. They also had two beautiful pools, one which had a bar attached to it. There was the dining room, which served delicious meals, and a lounge area. I felt like I was at a five star resort, absolutely beautiful. The first day there we were off into the safari. The first animal we saw was a water buffalo, I had no clue what it was. It was so funny, because we were all shouting out different animals that it was and we were wrong. I think I called it a ram. Then we started seeing springbok and zebra. I love zebras. I think everything in my room has a little hint of zebra print, so to actually see them in person was incredible. They were so cute, I loved them! Then we encountered the mighty elephants. I have never seen an elephant up close in my entire life. They were humongous, but I felt a sense of peace within them. But that peaceful feeling quickly faded when one of them came charging at our truck. The elephant extended his trunk as if he wanted to grab one of us out of the truck. It was such a trill, I loved it. That's a moment that I will never forget. Then we moved along and saw hippos, rhinos, ostriches, more zebras, and then out of nowhere beautiful giraffe emerged. I was so excited! At that moment my initial reaction was to just snap hundreds of pictures of it, but I remembered what Ben said about actually just looking at the animal from your own eyes and taking in that moment. So that was exactly what I did and it was so worth it. Just watching the way he moved was surreal. I think that was the best moment for me. Then we went to the lion's dens. They had so many lions, both male and female. Surprisingly the lions were so calm, they weren't even phased that we were there. Th next day we got to see more of the animals that were rescued; one being a cheetah which I have officially named Max. I can't begin to describe how adorable he was. He was just laying down watching us watch him. If only I could have taken him home. My goal was to see 4 animals; zebras, giraffes, lions, and elephants; but my expectations were exceeded. Just watching all of the animals near the waterhole living among each other so peacefully is only what one can wish for the world. If the animals can do it, I would hope that humans could do it too. One thing that the driver said that stuck with me is that the animals view humans as mortal enemies, that saddens me. We shouldn't be harming such animals for such materialistic things. I think we should join the fight to protect these animals. 

Daniella's new family

My new family...

when I first heard that we were going to participating in a home-stay. I'm not going to lie and say that I wasn't nervous. The idea that I would be living with a family that I didn't know was definitely a nerve racking thought. Crazy thoughts ran through my head like, will they be nice, do they have children, where would I be staying? So it was safe to say that I was scared and really feeling the idea. But the day came and I had to basically push back my fear and go for the ride. I was paired up with Eddie and we stayed with the Russo family in Oceanview. The family had a beautiful house, I must admit. It looked like a house that might have come from the U.S. The family dynamic included a mom, dad, two daughters, and a son. For our weekend there the children did not stay at the house, so I slept in the daughters room, while Eddie stayed in their son's room. My room looked like a basic teenagers room, so I felt right at home. The first day there we met everyone and chatted a bit. They asked us questions and we asked them questions. Then Mrs. Russo made a dinner, which was delicious. The next day we had our community service placement where we had to go to a daycare. This was a very good day. I loved watching the children play and sing. They were the cutest little children I have even seen. They had their school lessons, ate their lunch, and then took a nap. We had a chance to talk to the woman who ran the program and she told us about some of the students and their home situations. It was sad to learn about the things that were going on in their lives just seeing how young and innocent they were. I wish they could stay that way forever. That night we reunited with the other students for a little dinner party at one of the host families house. We ate, talked, and just relaxed. Saturday, my host family took us out to breakfast and then we had a chance to browse the mall. Being back at the mall made me feel at home. I love to shop so I was in my element that day. We visited so many shops and I purchased a few items. That night we went to their eldest daughter house for a braai. They made so much food and it was all delicious. We talked about the husband's work, the comparisons and differences between the U.S., and about Whiskey. They also watched some kind of soccer match, which I had no clue to what was going on. Sunday was the last day there and we had a relaxing morning then headed back to Chantel's to head home. We met up with all the other students and their host families. We said our goodbyes, prayed, and then headed home. It was a weekend well spent I would say. I would just like to thank my host family for accepting me into their home and for being so gracious to me. I also would like to thank Chantel for setting everything up and providing us with such a unique and once in a lifetime experience.

Daniella's journey to there and back

journey home . . .

Initially going on the trip I thought that four weeks was going to be way too long. I have never been away from my family for more than a week, so this was a challenge for me. But I was wrong, four week wasn't enough time. I felt like I was there for just a few days let alone a month. While being there I did get to experience a lot of wonderful adventures and explore different landmarks but I still wanted more. I wanted to do more and see more than I had. I wish the program was at least six weeks, but that probably wouldn't have been enough time either. I wish I had a chance to go surfing, swimming, or just visiting the beach at least once. I wish we went zip lining, paragliding, or even shark diving. It also would have been wonderful to have gone to church to see Bishop Desmond Tutu. There was an endless possibility of things to do there that I wish I had the chance to experience. But I am not discouraged because all the things I did get to do, was just as amazing. That last day we were in Cape Town was really hard for me to come to terms with. It was surreal that I was leaving in a matter of a hours. I put off packing up my room for the longest because I knew once I was packed, that just confirmed that I was leaving. This place that I was so nervous to come to, I actually ended up falling in love with and didn't want to leave. But all good things have to come to an end unfortunately. Saying goodbye was very difficult for me to do, especially when there were tears involved. I felt like we finally all getting to know one another and actually forming bonds and then we had to part ways. The journey to the airport was really sad and heartbreaking. Being home now I obviously still miss Cape Town and wish that I was still there, but it's nice to be home. At first I didn't adjust back to the time zone, so that took a while for me to get the hang of. I'm glad I have now because waking up at 6 am everyday was not ideal. 

Daniella's lessons from the people she met

The best guest speakers ever...

meeting new people is always an honor and a privilege. I am extremely thankful that we were able to meet so many influential individuals in Cape Town. Lucy Campbell being of those individuals. Her presentation at the Slave Lodge was presented in a way that I was able to grasp all the information. I loved her teaching style of actually presenting tangible items that represented an event or concept of that time. She had a tool box of different objects that represented the things that coloreds and blacks were oppressed by; such as hair, wine, and skin color. Hair was a way for the whites to determine the race of the others. They had something called the pencil test, which was when they placed a pencil in your hair and if it got stuck then you were classified "African" and not white, coloured, or Indian. On the other hand if the pencil fell out of your hair then they would classify you coloured. But that wasn't always the case. They also had other requirements and tests before you were actually considered to be white. 

Lucy also explained how alcohol was given to the coloreds and Africans to basically keep some kind of control over them; this was also the same with cigarettes. It was as if they paid them off with these potentially harmful substances, which I have noticed that till this day they are still playing a big role in their lives. Then the most obvious issue discussed was the color of your skin. This was the easiest way to determine your race in most cases. I truly enjoyed that day with Lucy. 

It wouldn't be right if I did not mention Tony. Besides his guitar playing and singing, his life story was actually pretty interesting and on topic. It was nice to actually hear about the events that took place by someone that was in the midst of it all. Getting the point of view from someone classified coloured but appeared to be white. He answered questions that I wanted answers to such as how has the apartheid affected his life now. He explained how he was condition and how he still is to this day; which was probably the most valuable information I got from him. 

Our other guest speakers included Vincent and Joe. Vincent who every Thursday gave a wonderful informative lessons on the history and politics of South Africa. I actually believe I learned the most from him then any of the museum tours. He provided us with the main and most important information relevant to South Africa. All these speakers had their own methods of teaching and I must say that I value their efforts to teach us about their personal lives and the country.

Daniella on the sounds of Africa

the sounds of South Africa

Cape Town is filled with so much rich culture and heritage, ranging from their foods, clothing, languages, and my personal favorite music. Cape Town had such a rich sound of music. They has a real passion for jazz music. We had the wonderful opportunity to go to not one but two jazz venues to watch live bands perform. The first place we went to was Lounge 021 at Swingers. It was a cool atmosphere with the dim lighting and light up stage. We ordered food and drinks and watched the show in amazement. Some of the musician were from the local university. They probably around my age, but possessed so much talent. The jazz music was so calming and relaxing. It was nice just listening to the instruments play so beautifully together. The next jazz place we attended was Blue Chip Jazz Cafe, which had a similar atmosphere. Each venue had a live band that played incredible music. At Blue Chip there was a dance floor, where people would gladly get up and dance to the jazzy tunes. The best part about both places is that people were invited up to perform if they pleased. So audience members, one including Alyssa, were able to also showcase their many talents. The audience members were so gracious and nice and to every and anyone who wanted to perform. One of my happiest moments was going to the Barnyard Musical. I enjoyed this so much. I loved all of the performances and they even did an encore number which was so amazing and nice of them to do. It was such a lively space with wonderful music. I also cannot forget about the AIDS Awareness concert we attended on our final night in Cape Town. It was mind blowing. I secretly always wanted to be a dancer, and these performance just brought back that desire. Music is in a sense universal, because whether I am in the van listening to the radio, out on Long Street, or watching television I would always hear a familiar song that I've heard in the US. This was definitely a comforting feeling for me to know that we do have some music in common. I have to say that the people in Cape Town have to be some of the most talented individuals I have ever met. At City Mission Educational Services where I did my service learning hours, the students were amazing actors, actresses, dancers, and singers. I was always blown away by their talents. The music aspect of Cape Town will always stay close to my heart.

Daniella experiencing many different foods

so many choices...

food food food! I love food. My expectations coming to Cape Town was not very good. I assumed the worst, mainly because of the ignorant comments my friends and family members were embedding into my head. But they were completely off. I had the some of the best experiences going out and trying the different foods. The first restaurant I remember going to was Nandos. I remember ordering chicken tenders with rice and got something unexpected. The chicken tenders in the US are usually deep fried, but not at Nandos! They served chicken tenders that were just grilled, which is probably much healthier. I have never been to a "fancy" restaurant before going to the Two Oceans Restaurant. It was such a beautiful restaurant and the food was so delicious. The food was plated so nicely with different garnishes and colors. It was such an exciting experience. Naive me, I thought that I would be only experiencing South African cuisines, but that was not the case. We went to Addis, an authentic Ethiopian Restaurant. I have never had Ethiopian food, so was a bit hesitant. It was quite the experience sharing and eating around one platter. They had an assortment of different meats such as; lamb, chicken, beef, and shrimp. There were also beans and tomatoes which were so good. We also went to Chai Yo, a Thai inspired restaurant. Then we went to other "take-away" type establishments such as Debonares and Lyras. They also had similar places such as McDonald's and KFC. But I would say the best places that had the best foods would have to be Vernon's Braai and Marita's flat. I will never forget those amazing cheese biscuits.  

Daniella on hiking Table Mountain

On hiking table mountain . . .

the thought of hiking table mountain was not a thought that crossed my mind. I am in no way, shape, or form an athletic individual. So it is no surprise that when I heard of the option of taking a cable car too and from it was sounding more like a definite possibility. But after speaking to my advisor, who visited Cape Town not too long ago, he convinced me that I should hike the mountain instead of taking the easy way out. So Sunday, June 9, was the day. I was actually pretty excited about it but a bit worried because I didn't know what to expect. I was also worried that I wasn't going to be able to accomplish it because I was not in shape. I feared lagging behind and holding up the other students. But all that fear went away the moment I reached Table Mountain. It was absolutely breath taking. The drive up there alone was a sight to see and actually being there was amazing. I was so pumped and excited to go.The scenery was so beautiful; all the rocks, the plants, and the streams. Hiking definitely took a lot of strength both mental and physical. I have to admit hiking Table Mountain was one of the hardest things I had ever done; besides leaving the country alone of course. It challenged me in ways that I never knew possible. There were times when I would see others running and sprinting up and the down the mountain with so much energy and I was dragging my feet completely exhausted. That discouraged me because I was suppose to be this young energetic girl and I couldn't do what these middle aged people were doing with no issues. But then I thought of myself, and realized that I was just as capable of achieving this. I might not be the fastest or strongest but I could also finish it. And that was exactly what I did. The moment I saw the top it was like I was looking into the heavenly skies. My legs were aching, I was having hot and cold flashes, and starving; but I sprinted up those last steps and finally reached the top. It was one of my proudest moments ever. I will treasure that moment forever. That experience makes me realize that I can accomplish any obstacle that comes my way. If I push myself, then nothing can stop me.          

Daniella's first day at CMES

Daniella & Leslie with learners at City Mission Educational Services

My first day at City Mission Educational Services was definitely not what I was expecting. We first started off meeting the staff and students, and also touring the different classrooms. Then we were given the opportunity to sit in on one of the classes. It just so happened to be the grade 11's Dramatic Arts class. All the students performed their very own monologues, which was breath taking. The stories they shared were so incredibly powerful and heart wrenching. It came to a point where tears began to swell into my eyes. I couldn't believe some of the situations these students had to face, but they were still persevering despite the pain they carried deep down inside. These students honestly changed my perspective on life in a way that was so unexpected.   To see such young individuals overcome their struggles, makes me more appreciative of the things I have in life that I often take for granted. The courage and bravery they have is such an inspiration for me to be a better person for myself, my family, and my community. The few days I was able to spend with the students was hands down one of the best experiences of this trip and of my life. I will never forget their desire to learn and their passion for school. It is so nice to see students wanting to learn and wanting to come to school with the goal of one day having a better future and not because they have to. Leaving the students on the last day was one of the hardest moments of my life. I had such a little time with them and I felt like we already had a connection, but despite that I will always remember the students at City Mission. I will continue to pray for a better future for them and a safe prosperous life. Lastly I would like to say thank you to Vernon for giving me the opportunity to be at City Mission, and I would also like to thank the teachers and students at City Mission for opening their school to me. I am honored and blessed to have had this amazing opportunity. Dankie to all! 

Daniella

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

On one of our outings we actually had a chance to go to the townships around Cape Town which was enlightening. Initially coming to South Aftica I had a vision in my head. I pictured Africa to exactly what I witnessed in these townships and that day that is exactly what I got. But when I first arrived all I saw was palm trees, mountains, beaches, beautiful homes, and luxury cars. I couldn't believe this was the Africa that I heard about. I felt as if I was still in the states, perhaps in Miami or Beverly Hills. The wine vineyards were just amazing as if I was in Napa Valley. I wasn't able to fully wrap my brain around what I was seeing. But then really sunk in as we're were driving past the European styled homes and into the "slums" & "ghettos." The homes were made from aluminum like materials, frail wood pieces, and whatever other materials they were able to find. Till this day I still wonder how the homes are still standing and how they actually assemble them? It was definently a culture shock to see the living conditions that so many individuals were in. We had a chance to see Langa, Guguletu, Nyanga, Khayelitsha, and Mitchell's Plain. In Khayelitsha we had a chance to speak to some of the staff members, Mandla Majola, of a HIV/Aids prevention program at Treatment Action Campaign. He spoke about the community as whole and why so many of them have this disease. I was moved by his passion for helping this community. He spoke about the many tactics that they have to spread the word about how to prevent the spread of HIV/Aids. He talked about having conventions for men to try and educate them on the importance practicing safe sex. He also talked about how they would go home to home and speak to the families. But the best part of his speech was when he told us that President Obama (then senator Obama) was in the very same room we were in asking people there about strategies on approaching the HIV/Aids epidemic as well as on their tactics for community organizing. How amazing is that? Seeing these townships made me realize that I should be very appreciative of this opportunity and what I have in my life.